Tag loss

What Grief Does When You Have One Parent Left.

What are you supposed to do when you are still grieving the loss of one parent and life threatens to take away the other? Let's talk about what grief does when you have one parent left.

The Three Ghosts of Grief.

Why is grieving the loss of a parent just so hard? The answer is the three ghosts of grief.

You Need To Know This If Someone You Love Has Died.

When I was smack in the middle of raw grief, a friend gave me one piece of information that completely changed the way I view death and dying. You need to know this too, if someone you love has died.

When Will My Grief End?

When does grief end? Grief is a long haul, and we are on this voyage whether we want to be or not...

Your Parent’s Last Moments In Life Affect Your Grief.

Often times it is not simply that a loved one died, but also how they died that matters to us so much and continues to affect us long after they are gone. Your parent's last moments in life can greatly affect your grief and how you grieve.

How Has Grief Changed You?

When someone important to you dies, there may come a time in grief in which you find that you don't quite recognize yourself.

Keeping Your Parent Alive.

How can we keep our parents alive, especially when doing so is a constant reminder of their death? Sometimes when a parent dies we can’t even say their name out loud. It hurts far too much. Saying their name dredges…

Ways To Ease The Pain Of Grief.

Especially in the early days, the pain of grief can be constant. Even many years after losing your mom or dad, the pain can still be intense and at times unbearable. You just want it to stop. When my mom…

The Parent Who Lived. Navigating Life After One Parent Dies.

When one parent dies, we are forced to reckon with the relationship we have with the surviving parent. The parent who lived. Those with a close, loving, healthy relationship with both parents don’t need to worry about this as much.…

Is Your Grief a Gift?

Just a few months after my mom died I was with another mom in the courtyard at school drop off, talking about how my world had stopped and my priorities had changed. I saw the world so differently with my…

What To Do When Grief Pops Up In Unexpected Places.

When your parent dies, in the beginning, grief is what you do. It’s expected. You might sit with intense grief, possibly surrounded by family and friends, planning for the burial and events to celebrate and remember your mom or dad’s…

Raw Grief. What It Feels Like When Your Parent Dies.

When my mother died, it felt like the world was moving but I had stopped. Life was spinning around me as I stood still trying to make sense of what happened. My earliest, raw grief was filled with waves of…