It’s Christmas, But My Mom Is Dead. (Can Holiday Magic & Grief Coexist?)

How are we supposed to feel the Christmas spirit when we've lost a beloved person? Can holiday magic and grief coexist?

(support for living with grief)

(support for living with grief)

How are we supposed to feel the Christmas spirit when we've lost a beloved person? Can holiday magic and grief coexist?

If you are grieving the death of a parent or a loved one, your grief might feel even worse in September.

What does grief do to your past trauma? What happens to unresolved trauma after your parent dies? Is it time to change your life?

If you know someone grieving a death, this post is for you. If you are the person in grief, send this post to your trusted people.

When my mom died, life simply stopped. Her death snipped the thread that held me to the earth, to a life where I could see possibilities ahead.

I recently heard someone say “grief needs a witness” in a YouTube video. But to be told there is something essential we need in order to heal our grieving hearts feels like a kick in the teeth.

Are you still beating yourself up over things you said or did when your parent who died was alive? It's time to forgive yourself.

I've been holding onto what feels like a shameful secret—that even though my mom dying was and is my most painful and heartbreaking life event, after her death I was finally able to be my true self.

Life changed drastically when my mom died. The grief felt like someone turned on a distorted selfie filter--the world looked strange, oddly sharp yet out of focus. I didn't think it would ever get better.

Does music help your grief or make it worse?

I’ve never visited my mother’s grave. Do I feel guilty about it? Yes. Am I going to do something about it? No.

People with ADHD and neurodiverse brains have different challenges and experiences with grief.

Your parent's death certificate won't read "death by grief", but it's possible to die of a broken heart.

When your mom or dad dies, you may realize some unfinished business..

When our parents die, we're left with objects that require our attention. Physical memories. Sorting your parent’s stuff after they die can be a daunting task.

Most people understand your sadness on the one year anniversary of your parent's death, but after four years, some wonder why grief is still affecting you.

Would you want advanced knowledge that your parent is about to die? Or would you rather not know that their death is coming and have it surprise you?

For some of us, Mother's Day is the most painful holiday on the calendar.

When something big happens in our lives we expect those closest in our circle, our dearest friends and family, to be the ones who support us, cheer for us, and hold our hands through whatever we are facing. Sometimes, that…